Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Traning to be a Facilitator to go back Uni



I just arrived back terengganu... Took a flight to Kuantan and a cab back to my house. Its 2 hours drive from Kuantan airport back to my home here. But the experience in the training centre is great. Wonderful experience and a great place... Its quite nice. Im looking forward to going back there for my next training in 2 days time... on Friday Im flying of to KL again.




As I walked in.. I was impressed with the ambience.. A big and comfortable lobby.. really spacious with lots of sofas for you to relax, read newspapers and even to have a chatter with your friends.

Im quite impressed, for a training centre the provide a place to stay.. almost simillar to a hotel.
They even have a big company logo at the reception counter. This place really give the classy look and a sense of feeling proud to be working for the oil and gas company.




I manage to ask someone to take a picture of me standing in front of the company logo. Wow... what a creative way to design the logo.. I do love the design of their floor though.. maybe im easily impressed. But honestly, I had no idea the training centre was this classy. To be honest, I thought it was just a building with some rooms and run down equipment which is not properly maintained... broken airconditions as well, perhaps?
But I was so wrong, it changed my mind completely, was looking forward for the training the 2 days ahead.


Not bad fro the bedroom, with a 2 single beds, a big dressing table, an aircondition, and a big window... abit like a hotel room la... only thing is the tv does not have any astro... so quite boring la... no internet somemore... cannot blog or surf the net here. Least got a window with a good view outside.


Guesed who I met who were selected to be facilitators back to UTP? My seniors and super seniors... and being the only chinese guy (junior somemore) .... they treat me quite well la... since I was always smiling here and there and they treat me like a kid la... eventhought Im like... so much more taller than them.

From Left: Chee Ying, Timothy, Wai Peng and Yik Hui...




And lastly, took a photo with the trainers... Pn. Nurhala and Mat Hussein. Really enjoy thier lecture. One of the things of being a facilitator is to encourage the students to open up and help them be more confident about themselves and their public speaking. During the trainig, was taught how to be an emphatetic listener and how to give contructive feedbacks to the students without hurting much of their ego.
The truth that I always know... its when people go though difficulty ... or when they get hurt. The thing the people desire most... is "to know that they have been HEARD"... Listening to people as they share their feelings and problems... and addressing to their feelings.. will help them.. help them to be acknowledge... of their existence and that people know that they are going through tough times... Have been a counceller to many people who had trouble... going through this course only helped me improved my interpersonal skills..
They time spent in the training centre had been a fruitful one... will look forward to go back there again for more of personal improvements.
Remember:
Secret of good communication....
"Seek first to understand... then only be understood."

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

On going to gym and about local Magician Street magic (FUIYOH MAGIC)

I have started going to gym again. Now I have completed 2 weeks of continues intensive workout. And I lost 3 Kg over the past 2 weeks. Im the type of person who do my best when i start things. The problem is... it is because of LAZYNESS that sometimes i dont even want to start again.

I need 21 days to make whatever im doing a habbit. Now it is day 14. another week to go to make this training a habbit. Exercise its good.... releases certain enzime in the body ot make one feel happier. Dont have those bad mood anymore.

Guys... stay away from COKE!!! that the source of my weight gain. Crap... I drink lots of coke.. although I dont eat much... What to do... PURE SUGAR... I still do miss the stuff.. its like an addiction.. but now trying to stay away from those nasty fellas...

Been 6 months here already. The first few months was like hell. Bad things happened to my life. Was at point I wished I was dead. Really dead... Now just going work hard and play hard.


Here is the Photo when I was here during the first month. and Comparing with photo I just took today.... Sucks la.. I only got webcam.. dont have a proper camera with me...












First month upon arrival

Picture just taken yesterday





Still love to do card tricks... Need to find time to improve... Malaysia is having a magic show called FUIYOH MAGIC!!. I heard from friends (magic fans) that they have malaysians (local magician) going around Kl and perform magic tricks.

I think I should join and do one episode... Im quite confident with my card manipulation skills. Wonder how to apply....






My current favourite songs:

Hinder- Lips of an Angel

Chris Droughty- It's Not Over (thanks Angkhian for sending me the songs. Love it... really meaningful song

Nickleback- If everyone cared

Monday, March 19, 2007

Was jogging to the gym...


Was jogging to the gym the past few weeks. Mind you, when you are in terengganu,
YOU GOT NOTHING TO DO. So... mind as well keep fit la.. do some exercise and invest in sports and health la.

I normally jog to the gym. Which is about 2 km from where I stay. When I reach there, I either do some physical workouts or jog another 20 minutes on the track machine. After that, would walk back the same 2 km to my house.
Upon reaching home is a nice warm shower to freshen up

But today was different. While I was jogging.. I met a person whose car broke down by the roadside. He needed to borrow a phone to contact his friend for help. I lend him my phone and we tried fixing the car.

Not being a machanic... there isnt much really I could help but wait for his friend. So... to make the long story short. Friend came... fixed car... I went off... Though I wasted about 1 hour just accompanying the guy at the roadside

But it is still a great feeling to be able to help others. It feels great to be alive. You feel as though life has more meaning


Still love to do magic tricks.. still improving card manipulation skills. Doing a double fan as shown on the right hand side.




Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Going through rough times

Im going through rough times. Makes me feel that I regret helping people.
Some people.... I dont want to say... but I feeling really negative here.
I just realize I still have high expectation on people. (christians especially)

Having some people pissing me off... may the Lord strike them...
thats how I feel. But its my right to stop being nice... I will... soon...
I will be defending myself soon... will rebuke people in a very very mild
way... I am so wanting to go to the other extreme...wanting to be a bad person